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The smart-home craze has connected everything \u2014 from your lightbulbs to your tea kettle \u2014 to the internet, and the adult industry isn\u2019t sitting this one out: manufacturers are releasing more smart models than ever. While syncing a sex toy to your smartphone unlocks some cool extra features, it also opens the door to potential security and privacy headaches. The good news? You can significantly lower most of these risks just by tweaking your settings and adjusting your usage habits.<\/p>\n

How sex-toy apps actually work<\/h2>\n

To be clear upfront, while researchers have successfully hijacked<\/a> sex toys in controlled experiments, the odds of a hacker remotely taking over your vibrator in the real world are pretty slim. In this post, we focus on the more realistic risks: your privacy and the safety of your data.<\/p>\n

Most modern adult toys link up with the manufacturer\u2019s app. These apps offer a range of usage options: you can control the device yourself, or hand over the remote to a partner \u2014 anywhere in the world via the internet.<\/p>\n

Beyond just basic controls, many of these apps have social features: private messaging, group chats, calls, and even video sessions. In fact, you don\u2019t even need a physical device to use some of them; you just create an account. Because of this, some of these services have essentially evolved into niche dating platforms.<\/p>\n

The toy and your phone talk to each other via Bluetooth \u2014 with minimal risks. To handle social features or remote control, the app connects to a cloud server. This creates a constant stream of data moving back and forth: everything from commands to private messages.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s the catch: even if you only use the app to control your toy locally via Bluetooth, you still get connected to that cloud server. That means you\u2019re inheriting all the security and privacy risks.<\/p>\n

The main risks of using sex-toy apps<\/h2>\n

Sex-toy apps are typically free. In practice, this means the primary way these services make money is by collecting data \u2014 which is often excessive<\/a>. It\u2019s not hard to find buyers of this information; it could be ad services, data brokers<\/a>, or other companies interested in building detailed user profiles.<\/p>\n

Developers of intimate apps suffer from frequent data breaches<\/a>, and in this sense they\u2019re no different from many other online services that spring a leak regularly. However, unlike a breach at an online pet food store, a data leak from a sex toy app can have much more serious consequences for the user. For sex industry workers, such as those who use webcams, these data breaches pose a direct threat to their physical safety.<\/p>\n

Vulnerabilities within the service\u2019s infrastructure warrant special attention. These types of bugs can be exploited by hackers to gain unauthorized access<\/a> to other people\u2019s accounts.<\/p>\n

The inclusion of broad social features essentially turns sex-toy apps into just another messaging platform. However, while we usually know if mainstream messengers use end-to-end encryption<\/a>, or what vulnerabilities they face, every sex-toy app has to be evaluated individually.<\/p>\n

Without end-to-end encryption, user chats may be accessible on the server side. This means that if the service is compromised, the contents of those messages could end up in the hands of hackers. Furthermore, the sex toy manufacturer itself, or its individual employees, could have access to your chats.<\/p>\n

Finally, the user\u2019s account and everything in it can be hijacked by bad actors if it isn\u2019t protected by a strong password and, ideally, two-factor authentication.<\/p>\n

How to lower the risks when using sex-toy apps<\/h2>\n

Now that we\u2019ve covered the threats, let\u2019s talk about how to defend yourself. The most obvious choice is to skip installing the app altogether. Thankfully, most sex toys still come with physical buttons \u2014 unlike, say, smart mattresses, which often require an app just to function<\/a>. For those who want the extra features, here are some practical tips for setting up and using these services.<\/p>\n

Create an account with a dedicated email address<\/h3>\n

Set up a separate email address just for registering your account in the intimate app. This should be a \u201cclean\u201d email with no links to any other online services you use. Naturally, the username for this email account shouldn\u2019t include your real name or any other easily identifiable info.<\/p>\n

Using an anonymous email protects your reputation if the app suffers a data breach. The risk of this happening is far from theoretical. For instance, back in 2015, a hacking group named The Impact Team leaked<\/a> the user database of Ashley Madison, a dating site for people seeking extramarital affairs.<\/p>\n

To create an anonymous email, pick a service that doesn\u2019t require a phone number at all, or lets you skip that step. Besides your real name, we also recommend leaving out your birth date, your usual social media handles, and any other details that could lead back to you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t sign up via Google, Apple, social media, or your phone number<\/h3>\n

The reasoning here is basically the same as the previous point. However, it\u2019s worth highlighting that signing up through Google, Apple, social media, or your phone number is actually just about the worst way to go.<\/p>\n

Using Google or social media accounts gives the app permission to, among other things, access certain data from those profiles. In the context of intimate apps, this is especially risky because it creates a direct link between highly sensitive data and your real-world identity.<\/p>\n

Keep your real info out of your profile<\/h3>\n

Once you\u2019re in the app, don\u2019t use any information that could be traced back to you. Come up with an anonymous handle (if you\u2019re feeling uninspired, use a random nickname generator), pick a fake birthday, and choose a random location.<\/p>\n

Using fictional info means you don\u2019t have to sweat being outed if the service ever leaks your data. You\u2019re also protecting yourself from stalking, blackmail, and other threats that come with someone being able to pin your real identity to your account.<\/p>\n

Hide your face and distinguishing marks when sharing private media<\/h3>\n

As we\u2019ve mentioned throughout this post, these apps often include social features used for swapping intimate photos and videos. Even if you trust the person you\u2019re chatting with, those files can be saved, forwarded, or used without your consent<\/a>. When combined with other account info, they can make it easy to figure out who you are.<\/p>\n

We recommend never sending intimate media that shows your face or anything else that identifies you \u2014 think recognizable home decor, personal items, documents, unique clothing, tattoos, or jewelry.<\/p>\n

Set a strong password and enable two-factor authentication, if available<\/h3>\n

If a hacker breaks into your sex toy account, they\u2019re getting access to your most private data. Because of that, your account needs a rock-solid password. Just to be clear, here\u2019s what we mean by a strong password:<\/p>\n